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Mariaeugenia Guanipa Pérez's avatar

"Joan also mentions trying to meet “new faces”. I never wanted to meet any new faces. What I enjoyed the most were fleeting interactions with strangers, and in most cases, they were older people." Oh, how I can relate to this. Most of tbe time people who ask you of your travels sounds so abashed or confused when you tell them you didn't make any friends. It happened to me.

I really love your observations. As an introverted, really seeing what's out there it's "difficult". How did you develped it as an introverted yourself? I wonder what were those relationships you made and than later you felt so ashamed of.

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Monika Repčytė's avatar

Thank you for your thoughts! I don't really have an answer. I was sometimes more enthusiastic about meeting new people and forming relationships, at sometimes, much less. In this specific time period, I was tired after school, tired of people, and wanted to focus on myself, and a new city (a dream city!) was a perfect opportunity. It gave me everything that I needed. About those relationships — let's just say I didn't have people who shared similar interests to mine close to me and was surrounded by those who saw the world in a completely different way. So it was hard to be myself; I felt disoriented and out of place.

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Mariaeugenia Guanipa Pérez's avatar

Oh!! I understand the feeling. Sometimes we do it for survival, perhaps?

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Monika Repčytė's avatar

Thank you for reading!

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